People You Can Count On (for certain things)

Many times I have been disappointed with people in the past over unmet expectations. But then again, I've noticed there are certain people you can count on for certain things.

For instance, having a meal with someone when I call them randomly. Like tonight, I wanted to eat some all-you-can-eat sushi, so I texted a few people that have a high probability of saying "yes." These tend to be young, single guys who are students or working people. I guess that's the luxury of being in that stage of life. I try calling any of my married friends they will most likely have either a plan or budget that will keep them from coming out, so I don't even bother asking them anymore.

I also wonder where you draw the lines between being stingy, trying to be responsible with your resources, and squandering.

I will say that sometimes, spending is investing, esp. when it comes to having a meal with someone.